One of the children’s books I read my little ones was about a tiny goldfish in a fishbowl and a young child. The child was allowed to feed the fish but told to feed it just so much and no more. Well, the child felt sorry for the fish and keep feeding it more and more and more. That fish grew and grew and grew until it didn’t even fit in the bathtub. Although the child thought he was being kind and good, he hurt the fish and himself plus in the process made a mess of everything.
You know we can do that… all the while think we are kind and helpful but make a mess of everything hurting ourselves and others.
I do things wrong, not intentionally but I do. I had 5 children, they gave me 13 grandchildren, who have so far given me 7 great-grandchildren. Each one is so precious. GOD said it right when HE declared that if any of them asked me for a fish I would not give them a snake, or if they asked for an egg I definitely would not give them a scorpion. (Luke 11:11-12). Yet, I don’t always give them what they want either.
One of my granddaughters loves to eat and she always wants more. Sometimes I think she would eat until she popped if I would let her. There have been a time or two when I misjudged and let her have a bit too much and she got a belly ache.
It is because I really love her, that I will give her just so much and no more, even when she thinks she wants or needs more.
GOD is good. JESUS said that there is no one good but GOD (Matthew 19:17). Sometimes we go to our loving Heavenly FATHER and ask for something we want or think we need yet HE says no or gives us something else.
One I know who loves the LORD went to the LORD and asked for something special during a hard situation. He fully expected it, for he knows GOD loves to answer the prayers of HIS children. This man waited patiently for the LORD to answer. Then one day something happened and he realized that GOD was not going to give him what he so desperately felt he needed. He felt he had asked GOD for a fish, but GOD gave him a snake. At that point the guy felt GOD had cheated him.
I must admit, there have been a few times when I asked for a fish and GOD chose to do something different, I reacted, thinking HE had given me a snake too. However, later as I looked back over the situation I realized GOD knew what HE was doing all the time. But at that moment, I thought HE had given me a scorpion to bite me.
Luke 11:10-13 says that if we who are far from perfect know how to give good things to our children, how much more will GOD give us what is best for us.
“No good thing will HE withhold from them who walk uprightly” (Psalm 84:11).
So, if you are walking with the LORD and HE withholds something from you, you can be sure that what HE is withholding is it not the best thing for you right now. You can trust HIM to know what is best.
Hugs
Sharon