Pointing the finger
We often will point to an item or person to identify them to another. The term pointing the finger is an idiom meaning to blame one and identify him.
Has the LORD ever spoken to you from HIS word, then instantly you are being tested in that very area?
It is as clear as if it happened yesterday, but it was years and years ago when I was a young believer in JESUS. I had been reading the Word of GOD and the LORD was speaking to me about judging others.
Isaiah 58:9 take away the yoke (my demands and expectations of others)
stop pointing the finger (judging others)
stop speaking emptiness (you don’t know all the details)
feed the hungry and clothe the naked (do what you can to help)
then (if you do this) you will call to the LORD and HE will answer
Isaiah 58:11 then the LORD will guide you continually…
Then I went to where I was reading in the New Testament and
Ephesians 4:31-32 let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor and evil speaking be put away from you with all malice. be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another even as GOD for CHRIST’s sake forgave you.
It was a Sunday morning and as I was leaving for church, someone did something that really upset me and I filled up with anger, Looking back I found that in that situation
I had (unmet and probably unreasonable) expectations of the person
I did point my finger at him as being wrong
I spoke as if I knew why he did what he did (when I knew only in part)
I allowed anger to control me so I
I spoke out of turn.
In other words, I totally blew it. I completely failed the test. I knew it, the moment I got in the car and left for church. So confessed all the way there.
Then the sermon hit me square between the eyes. The pastor began by saying, “When we feel angry, it is because we’ve gotten our eyes off of JESUS and tried to take control of the situation or person.
His words described me that morning. I had been angry and pointed a finger at someone’s actions, even though I just read how I must stop that. And now, three fingers were pointing back at me. I was guilty.
You therefore have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge another, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things, (Romans 2:1).
The shame I felt through that conviction was awful and what I learned that morning has stayed with me down through the years. Now when I feel the anger rising I do what the word tells me. I run to the throne of grace for help in my time of need. Cause I need help to release my anger to GOD (Hebrews 4:16). And when I find myself wanting to point my finger at other, the HOLY SPIRIT (John 14:26) reminds me of Romans 2:1 which makes me stop and ask where am I guilty, LORD?
Funny thing is that when I choose to do things GOD’s way, that which HE tells us to do in HIS word, peace comes over me and I start thinking about and praising the LORD from whom all blessings flow (James 1:17).
Looking unto JESUS, the Author and Perfector of my faith,
Hugs
Sharon